What do I say, instruct, teach a child who is insistent that his siblings are "ruining his life"? Suggestions? Ideas? How do I show compassion but also get the point across that he is NOT a victim? That having siblings is part of life.
(This child is seven and the oldest of four children.)
OK - help this mom out. Have some suggestions for her?
Be sure to tell us your own birth-order...it will be interesting to hear your different perspectives.