*Does my husband see me smile more often than not?
*Is my home a happy home?
*Am I someone even I would want to come home to?
*Do I enjoy life? Do I know how to have fun or am I often too intense or dramatic?
*Am I husband-focused, or am I kid-focused, object-focused or even me-focused?
*Am I positive and encouraging?
*Do I allow him to dream without pointing out all the reasons why "that won't work"?
*Do I allow the Holy Spirit to be his conscience?
*What do my children hear from my mouth concerning my husband?
*Am I still someone, today, that my husband would pursue and fall in love with?
*Am I really a submissive wife who shows respect to her husband?
*Do I often show my disapproval of my husband's actions by giving the "silent treatment"?
*Do I pray for my husband?
After almost 35 years of marriage, these are questions I still need to ask myself. A check-up is good to keep our marriages healthy. Still working on it here!