By the end of the day, you’re a frazzled mess. Today your only “alone” time was in the bathroom and that was with a child or two beating on the door and crying for you. Everyone needs you at the same time (even your husband, bless his heart). You wish you had a clone, or at least a full-time housekeeper, chauffer, and teacher! There’s just not enough of you to go around. And guess what? You’re right! And it’s ok! Really! In fact, it’s a good thing.
It gives you opportunity to teach your children
*that some needs are greater than others. (A baby, a sick or special needs child)
*patience (waiting without complaining)
*independence (learning to play by themselves, if necessary)
*leadership (older children can take care of many needs of younger children)
*life isn’t fair (and neither are moms and dads) ; )
So, take a deep breath. Learn to rest in the truth that as moms we’ll never be enough to everyone.
And go lock yourself in the bathroom for five minutes again.
My question is, "Why do they always holler MOM when they need something instead of Dad"?
ReplyDeleteStory of my life. But, I have a feeling that when they are older I'll be missing this about them.
Oh, Father, please don't let me wish away their days.